There is definitely a cone drogue on the leading Wessex's hose, just visible at the bottom of the loop. In flight I reckon that they would look something like this. (please excuse my 'cut and paste' diagram)
Unlike the Sea Stallion, there is no protruding refueling probe beyond the rotor arc of the receiving Wessex.
All of my googling only reveals that the Wessex was capable of refueling in flight by
hovering above a Navy ship and dropping a refueling line down.
I'm thinking that they hooked together on the ground and then took off..just for the Farnborough audience?